An Idea is Born
When my daughter and son were five and three respectively, we went shopping at the mall. It was the 1995 holiday season and the Salvation Army had its Christmas Giving Tree on display, decorated with paper angels that described children in need of holiday gifts.
When I explained this to them, they started asking questions. “Who are the poor people?” “Where do they live?” “Why are they poor?” “What can we give them to help them not be poor?” Beyond that, I could sense their real concern, "Mom, how can we help?"
We sat down at the kitchen table and over pretzels and apple juice came up with a plan.
We contacted several social service agencies and asked for a list of their clients who would like holiday gifts. It would be totally anonymous. We would need just three pieces of information:
The recipient's initials
A brief personal description
The holiday gift they would like
Next, we created tags that looked like flames to symbolize the lighting of lives with hope and wrote the descriptions on them.
We asked friends and family if they would like to “adopt a flame” and get a gift for the person described on the flame for the holidays.
We told donors to pick “a flame” that spoke to their heart. My kids did not grow up with a grandfather so we always bought gifts for the elderly men. Twenty people donated 49 gifts that first year.
Eleven months later, we were again driving by the mall and the kids started asking, “Who will we help this year?” Our friends called wondering if we were doing the “flames-thing” again this year. So I said, “Sure, why not." And the rest is history!
What We've Achieved Together
Over 17,000 gifts in total given in 23 years.
Supporting over 36 partner organizations.
A growing focus on underserved and impoverished communities
Donated 49 gifts in 1995 to 2054 gifts in 2018.
More than half of our annual list provides holiday gifts for children.
4% of all gifts go to special giving initiatives like Caregiver Initiative, Centerpieces For a Cause, Handmade Giving Project, Neighbor to Neighbor